The game you play

At an event I attended recently, I watched as the first hour was used to play a harmful version of the status game.

You might have seen this version before.

Someone introduces themselves. They try to sound impressive so others can take note of them. They often tie their identity around what they do and paint a perfect image.

Another person does the same. This time, trying to outshine the previous person.

Then the next person tries outshining the last. And on and on.

Noticing when this game is at play is an exercise in seeing others. And in seeing yourself.

There may be nothing wrong in playing the status game if that's where you want to win.

Know what you have decided to sacrifice when you choose to accept the invitation to play. Some games only have one winner, if any. There is a high chance it isn't you.

Moreover, we connect more with others when we decide to create and play a different game.