Your job is not their job
Your job is to make art1. To create something beautiful. To obsess with care and love over how every tiny part fit. To gift yourself with doing the work in ways that make your work useful.
Their job is to be entertained by your art. To be moved by it. To critique it. To praise and badmouth it. To compare it with others.
Remember this when you find yourself doing their job.
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Art is in everything - from product to code to everything in between.