How to approach relativity
The theory of relativity isn’t wrong. Neither is that of memetic desires.
It’s true that many define their experiences relative to those of the people around them. Relativity influences meaning.
It’s also true that we can experience peace when we remind ourselves that most people and things aren’t existing relative to us. They simply are.
We complicate things when we measure our satisfaction, happiness, desires, needs and wants based on the answers from others.
We live in a long context. And that context isn’t other people.